Episode 40 - The Romantic-Mediator Couple, Type 4 and Type 9

If you’re joining us for the first time, this podcast is an explorative conversation about the Enneagram, pop culture examples and it is unstructured. Sometimes it includes conversations that aren’t about the Enneagram. We learn as you learn, we’re not presenting information as experts.

We start this episode by going on a rant about Kourtney Kardashian and Poosh. Fast forward to the 20 minute mark if you’re looking to skip the intro.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How 9s merge themselves with other people’s lives

  • We explore how 9s and 4s work together

  • The tragic mind cycle of a 4

  • Uncomfortable relationship conversations and Enneagram conflict styles

  • Celebrity examples of 9 and 4’s (we couldn’t find any we made them up)

  • We honestly ended this episode having more questions about how this couple works together because we don’t have a lot of examples, please email us if you’re in a 9 + 4 couple and tell us your secrets 👀