Episode 43

Intro/Outro: J Roes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfWAxIk4xDw

Today we’re wrapping up our compatibility series with the holy trinity of types - types 3 + 6 and types 6 + 9. Skip to 9:55 minutes to start the episode.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What it’s like to be with a 3, 6 and 9

  • We analyze a relationship thread on Reddit between a 6 + 9 that has gone from monogamous to polyamorous and are now sleeping in separate beds

  • A Redditor says he’s heard 9s are cheaters

  • Marissa shares intimacy tips from the internet

  • Vulnerability in 3, 4 and 8 relationships

Enneagram study on compatibility: https://www.9types.com/writeup/enneagram_relationships.php

Resources for today’s episode: Helen Palmer’s The Enneagram in Love and Work: Understanding Your Intimate and Business Relationships (most titles of our relationship series are based on Helen Palmer’s titles of the couplings), Enneagram Institute, REDDIT, Drdaviddaniels.com, fitzel.ca

Enneagram conflict resolution styles: http://www.fitzel.ca/enneagram/conflict.html